Most people assume their spouse or children will simply "get everything" if they die without a will. But the reality is very different. When someone dies without a valid will in Ontario, they have died "intestate." Instead of their own wishes guiding the distribution of their estate, Ontario's Succession Law Reform Act takes over, and a government formula decides who gets what.
This can lead to outcomes that no one wanted and that cause family conflict, tax problems, and heartbreak. In this article, we'll explain what happens under Ontario's intestacy rules, share five things most people don't realize, walk through a real example, and tell you what you can do today to protect your family.
Ontario's Intestacy Rules: Who Gets What?
If you die intestate in Ontario, the Succession Law Reform Act dictates how your estate is divided. The formula depends on your family situation:
- Married with children: Your spouse receives the first $350,000 of the estate, and the remainder is split between your spouse and children in equal shares.
- Married with no children: Your spouse receives the entire estate.
- Unmarried with children: Your children inherit equally, with nothing to a partner (common-law or otherwise).
- No spouse, no children: Your estate goes to your parents, then siblings, then grandparents, then aunts and uncles—following a rigid pecking order.
- Common-law partner (no marriage): Your partner receives nothing, regardless of how long you were together or what you owned jointly.
Five Things Most People Don't Realise About Dying Without a Will
1. Your Common-Law Partner Gets Nothing
If you are in a common-law relationship and have no will, your partner is not entitled to anything under Ontario's intestacy rules—even if you have been together for 20 years, even if you have children together, and even if you own property jointly. The law recognizes marriage but not common-law partnerships in the intestacy formula. Only marriage provides automatic inheritance rights. This is one of the most cruel surprises families face.
2. Your Spouse May Not Get What You Think
If you have children, your spouse does not automatically get everything. Under the intestacy formula, your spouse gets the first $350,000, and the rest is split equally between your spouse and your children. This means your children may inherit money while your spouse is still living, and decisions about how to invest or use that money must involve the children (or their guardians if they are minors). This can create tension, complications, and unexpected tax bills.
3. Your Estate Will Go Through Probate Regardless
Whether you have a will or not, your estate must go through probate—a court process to confirm who has the authority to distribute your assets. But without a will, probate takes longer, costs more, and leaves more room for family disputes. Someone must apply to the court to be named estate administrator (the equivalent of an executor). There is no document saying who you wanted to do the job, and family members may have different ideas.
4. Family Conflict May Erupt
Dying intestate creates a vacuum. Without clear instructions from you, family members may argue about who should administer the estate, what your wishes were, and who deserves what. These disputes can drag on for years, cost thousands in legal fees, and permanently damage family relationships. A will prevents these conflicts by making your wishes clear and binding.
5. Your Minor Children's Inheritance Will Be Frozen Until They Are 18
If your children are minors and they inherit money under the intestacy rules, that money cannot be given to them directly. It must be held in trust, either by the Public Guardian and Trustee (a government agency) or by the court. This is inconvenient, inflexible, and costly. A will lets you name a trusted person to manage your children's inheritance and control when and how they receive money—for example, at age 25 or when they graduate from university.
A Peterborough Example
Let's say David and Sarah have been together for 12 years. They are not married, but they have two young children together, and they own a home in Peterborough worth $500,000. They each have modest savings and life insurance.
If David dies without a will, here's what happens:
- Sarah receives nothing. The $500,000 home is divided equally among David's two children.
- Sarah must apply to court to be named administrator of David's estate.
- The children's inheritance is frozen in trust until they are 18 or 19 (depending on court rules).
- Sarah cannot sell the home or access the money the children inherited without court permission—even to pay the mortgage or property taxes.
- Sarah and the children must get a lawyer to modify the court order, which costs thousands of dollars.
- If there is family conflict between David's siblings or parents and Sarah, the dispute could take years to resolve.
Sarah loses her home, her financial security, and her peace of mind. This was not what David would have wanted, but without a will, it's what the law provides.
What You Can Do Today
The solution is simple: make a will. A will is a legal document that lets you decide what happens to your property, who manages your estate, who cares for your children, and how your wishes are carried out.
Here's what we recommend:
- Call our office: We can book you for a consultation to discuss your situation. You do not need to be wealthy or have complicated finances to benefit from a will. Everyone needs one.
- Bring documents if you have them: A list of your assets, the names of your spouse and children, and the names of people you trust to act as executor and guardian.
- Be clear about your wishes: Think about who you want to inherit, who you want to manage your estate, and who you want to raise your children if you have minors.
- Review your beneficiary designations: Life insurance, RRSPs, TFSAs, and registered accounts pass outside your will if you have named beneficiaries. Make sure these align with your overall plan.
A will gives you peace of mind and protects your family. The cost is modest compared to the cost of intestacy disputes or the financial loss your family may face if you die without one.
We're Here to Help
If you live in Peterborough or the surrounding area and you don't have a will, or if your will is outdated, we can help. Our lawyers specialize in wills, estates, and powers of attorney. We will listen to your situation, answer your questions, and help you make decisions that protect your family and reflect your values.
Call us at (705) 749-0628 or contact us online to book a consultation today. Your peace of mind is worth it.
This article is for general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every situation is unique. Please consult with a lawyer before making estate planning decisions.